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Adam Greenfield
Adam Greenfield
@adamgreenfield@social.coop  ·  activity timestamp 3 months ago

Something I’d ask people to consider, here and everywhere, is that if someone isn’t perceptibly responding to a situation with the grief or anger or rage you think is appropriate, it doesn’t necessarily mean they don’t care.

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JuanjoSan
JuanjoSan
@JuanjoSan@mastodon.social  ·  activity timestamp 3 months ago

@adamgreenfield Maybe they've chosen that something doesn't really matter, for saving health and energy. Perhaps they see the situation from another point of view. Who knows.

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kali
kali
@kali@discuss.systems  ·  activity timestamp 3 months ago

@adamgreenfield right. i don't have the extra mental health to doomscroll and whine 24/7 and quiet frankly i think y'all have it neither.

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Jo Rhodes
Jo Rhodes
@stuffjolikes@climatejustice.social  ·  activity timestamp 3 months ago

@adamgreenfield agree but also want to flag up nobody should judge whatever people are doing that is helping them to cope .... running a community project is a constant lurch from one crisis to another and many rural services have collapsed completely.. honestly #kdrama and #BTS have been essential to my sanity over the last couple of years.

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Adam Greenfield
Adam Greenfield
@adamgreenfield@social.coop  ·  activity timestamp 3 months ago

@stuffjolikes Anyone who’d try to tell someone else what they should or should not be doing to manage the sensation of being alive in this moment is, on some level, really sitting in judgment of themselves.

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Susi Arnott
Susi Arnott
@SusiArnott@mastodon.green  ·  activity timestamp 3 months ago

@adamgreenfield What prompted this thought? (Addressed a learned society in the new year and tried not to make this assumption -
https://www.susiarnott.co.uk/home/the-climate-emergency/whats-science-outreach-for/ )

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Adam Greenfield
Adam Greenfield
@adamgreenfield@social.coop  ·  activity timestamp 3 months ago

Not a subtweet, btw – just an observation about an often hard-won equanimity, and how it flies in the face of so many of the expectations we have of performative expression and the presentation of self. We used to say “Still waters run deep,” and though I haven’t heard that in a long time it may well yet be that way for some among us.

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Susi Arnott
Susi Arnott
@SusiArnott@mastodon.green  ·  activity timestamp 3 months ago

@adamgreenfield What prompted this thought? (Addressed learned society in the new year and likewise tried not to assume - https://www.susiarnott.co.uk/home/the-climate-emergency/whats-science-outreach-for/ )

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Adam Greenfield
Adam Greenfield
@adamgreenfield@social.coop  ·  activity timestamp 3 months ago

@SusiArnott I’m not sure it’s wise to discuss here, tbh. Social media doesn’t lend itself to equanimity, even social media of this odd-duck variety.

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